The Power of a First Look:
Why You’ll Want It Captured on Film

When we were planning our wedding, one thing I didn’t expect to fall in love with was our first look wedding photos. I had seen it on Pinterest and Instagram — that sweet moment when the couple sees each other before the ceremony — but I thought, “Isn’t that what the aisle is for?”

Now, looking back at our photos, especially those first look wedding photos, I’m so glad we did it. That private moment became one of the most emotional parts of our day — and some of the most beautiful memories we now have.

A bride in a lace wedding gown playfully reaching out to tap her groom’s shoulder for their first look.

What Is a “First Look,” Really?

A first look is a private moment before the ceremony where the couple sees each other for the first time, away from the crowd and the nerves of walking down the aisle. It doesn’t break tradition — it creates a new one, one that’s all about you two, without distractions.

Our Ottawa wedding photographer and videographer suggested the idea gently, telling us it often helps calm nerves and gives space to be present with each other before the whirlwind starts. And they were right.

What Made It So Special for Us

We met behind a row of trees just outside the venue. I was nervous, and my dress kept catching on the grass. But the second I saw him — suit slightly wrinkled, eyes already watery — I forgot all of it.

Our photographer stayed quiet, giving us space while capturing everything: his expression when he turned around, the way I touched his shoulder, the tears, the laughter, the whisper of “you look perfect.”

The first look wedding photos we got from that moment? They don’t just show what we looked like — they show exactly what we felt. And the video? I’ve watched it more than our ceremony.

Why You Need the Right Photographer & Videographer

A moment like this only happens once. And while anyone can snap a picture, not everyone knows how to see the story. We were lucky to have Palm Tree Studio — they captured the rawness, the movement, the emotion. Nothing felt staged. We were just… us.

That’s the difference a great wedding videographer in Ottawa makes. They blend into the background but somehow catch everything — even the way he reached for my hand when I got teary.

More Reasons to Do a First Look

If you’re still unsure, here are a few reasons I’d recommend it to any couple:

  • It gives you a quiet moment together before the busy day

  • It can help shake off the nerves

  • You get more couple portraits before the ceremony (aka more daylight!)

  • It adds a deeper layer of emotion to your wedding story

Plus, if you’re short on time later in the day, this is a beautiful way to ensure you have lots of meaningful photos together — not just rushed shots between group portraits and dinner.

Ottawa Couples, Don’t Skip This

If you’re planning your wedding in Ottawa, trust me — find a team that values moments over poses. Palm Tree Studio did more than just take pictures — they told our story, from the quiet moments to the big ones.

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